Every solid relationship is based on mutual trust, understanding, and open communication. That, however, doesn’t mean that we should utter every thought. Sometimes, the things we choose to share with our partner, no matter how honest, can lead to unnecessary tension, insecurity, and even misunderstanding.

This doesn’t mean we should keep secrets from the person we are in a relationship with, but some feelings are better processed privately before being shared.

Below are 15 things that a woman should avoid telling her man:

1. “My ex used to do that too”

Making comparisons between your ex and current partner may not be the best idea because it can be interpreted as though you are still not over the guy you once dated. At the same time, it can affect your partner’s self-confidence and lead to jealousy and resentment.

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