Planning the future is normal, but talking about marriage, children, or living together while the relationship is still in its early stages can make partner be tired and pressure. Not everyone grows at the same pace, and a man can feel uncomfortable if he feels too much pressure on commitments that take time.
Compare it to others
Whether it’s an ex, a colleague, or a friend, simply making comparisons, even trivial ones, can be very difficult to understand. “My ex did things differently,” “My girlfriend’s husband is more attentive,” “Why don’t you do like him?” A man needs to feel honored for who he is, and not in consistent competition with a perfect model.