1. He is overwhelmed by unexpressed stress

When a man is under pressure—from work, finances, or personal matters—he can become trapped in his thoughts. His mind is preoccupied with finding solutions, and physical intimacy takes a backseat. Often, it’s not that he no longer desires you, but rather that he’s emotionally unavailable to connect with you.

2. Feels emotionally distant

Physical intimacy often follows emotional connection. If there were unresolved arguments, awkward silences, or days when he felt misunderstood, he may have shut down emotionally. When he no longer feels heard or connected, desire tends to decrease as well.

3. She is dealing with low self-esteem

It might not be about you at all, but about how he sees himself. A man who feels unattractive, inadequate, or insecure in a relationship may withdraw from physical contact. His silence in bed may be masking insecurities he’s afraid to voice.