His reaction sparked a debate when I shared my story on Reddit. I received an outpouring of support and suggestions. One commenter pointed out the irony in my husband’s logic: If showers calm our daughter, why doesn’t he take her with him on his marathon showers?

Others suggested more drastic measures, like closing the bathroom door to get some privacy or having a serious discussion about parenting responsibilities. It’s clear I’m not alone in this struggle, and many stressed the importance of communication and setting boundaries.

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