It started with a simple cheese pizza.
TikTok influencer Vanessa von Schwarz (@vanessaschwarzz) sparked a viral debate when she shared a video explaining how she was shamed for ordering off the kids’ menu at a hotel restaurant in Japan. Her crime? Choosing a small, melty cheese pizza — not from the adult menu, but from the children’s section.
What followed was a firestorm of opinions: Was she being frugal? Embarrassing? Clever? Or just… hungry?
This moment reignited a long-standing question that’s divided diners, servers, and etiquette experts alike:
Should adults be allowed to order off the kids’ menu?
Let’s dive into both sides — and see if we can finally settle this.
Why Adults Should Be Allowed to Order from the Kids’ Menu
There are plenty of perfectly valid reasons why an adult might choose a kids’ meal — and many have nothing to do with being childish or cheap.
1. Smaller Portions = Less Waste
Not everyone has a big appetite. Seniors, people with smaller stomachs, or those simply not that hungry may prefer a modest portion. The kids’ menu often offers just the right amount — avoiding food waste and overeating.
“I don’t want a mountain of pasta. I want a taste. Why is that a problem?”
2. It’s More Affordable
Kids’ meals are typically priced lower — a win for budget-conscious diners, travelers, or anyone trying to save on meals out. If the restaurant offers it, why not take advantage?
3. Some Adults Love “Kid Food”
Let’s be honest: grilled cheese, chicken tenders, mac and cheese, and plain cheese pizza are universally delicious . These aren’t just for children — they’re comfort classics.