Feeling “weird” in the family.
Not feeling at all comfortable in groups, circles, or even religious settings.
Having suffered betrayal, slander, or unjust abandonment.
Many women marked by God say that, as children, they felt “out of place” anywhere. This can lead to a lot of confusion and low self-esteem.
From the perspective of faith, however, this rejection can have another meaning:
God separates them from certain human dependencies so that they learn to rely more on Him than on the approval of others. Rejection is not a curse, but a painful preparation for a higher mission.
5. Constant battles in health and economic matters
Chosen women also tend to undergo severe tests in very delicate areas:
Recurring illnesses or difficult-to-diagnose symptoms.
Physical fatigue that can’t always be explained by external factors alone.
Financial problems, debt, painful material losses.
Spiritually, it’s interpreted as the enemy trying to wear them down where it hurts most: their bodies and their stability. Why? Because an exhausted, worried, and sick woman will have less energy for her mission.
Yet many of these women bear witness to something striking:
even as their bodies weaken, their faith grows stronger. Even when sick, they continue to pray. Even with little, they continue to help. And this is precisely their danger from evil: they do not give up.
6. A love that comforts and heals.
There are women whose mere presence brings relief. They aren’t perfect, but they have something that many seek without knowing it:
They listen without judgment.
They offer simple advice, yet their words touch deeply.
They embrace, accompany, and support.
Their home, their gaze, and their voice are a refuge for others.
They are women who love with a special intensity:
they care for, console, and welcome. They may go unnoticed, but on a spiritual level, they are truly living remedies, channels of God’s mercy for those who suffer.
Love is his greatest gift. And when this love is combined with prayer, it becomes an enormous spiritual force for your family, your community, and many people you don’t even know.
7. Thirst for God and a sense of “not belonging” to the world
The deepest and, at the same time, most hidden sign is this:
an inner thirst that nothing can completely quench.
Nothing satisfies them completely: neither success, nor money, nor plans.
They feel their hearts beating for something greater.
They seek God, they are drawn to the spiritual, to prayer, to the sacred.
They feel “foreign” in a materialistic and superficial world.
From the perspective of faith, this restlessness is not a psychological problem, but a distinctive sign of heaven: the soul knows it was created for something greater and cannot resign itself to a life devoid of spiritual depth.
When this woman awakens and begins to truly live her mission, she becomes – in spiritual language – an earthquake against the darkness: wherever she arrives, she prays, intercedes, loves and supports.
It’s not enough to know you’ve been chosen: you have to live like one.
Knowing you own one or more of these brands isn’t the end point. It’s the beginning.
Spiritually, a woman who discovers her identity and doesn’t live it runs the risk of suffering even more, because her soul feels she’s off track.
If you recognize yourself in many of these signs, perhaps it’s time to take three important truths for granted:
You are not weak: you are sensitive and marked.
You are not a mistake: your story has a meaning that is still unfolding.
You are not alone: heaven does not abandon those who call.
First steps for a woman who knows she has been chosen.
In light of these teachings, some concrete steps you can begin to take are:
1. Acknowledge your identity before God
In a moment of silence, you can sincerely say:
“Lord, if you have truly chosen me,
I give you my life, my wounds, and my gifts.
Teach me what
my mission is and give me the strength to live it.
Use me as you will. I am yours.”
You don’t have to understand everything. The important thing is to open your heart.
2. Seeking refuge under Mary’s mantle
Many women find strength by consecrating themselves to Our Lady:
Offering up her pain, her struggles, and her family every day.
Praying, even briefly: “Mother, cover me with your mantle.
Take care of my home, my heart, and my mission.”
Spiritually, it is said that no woman is lost when she lets herself be guided by Mary to Jesus.
3. Taking serious care of your spiritual life
A chosen woman cannot live “automatically”. Need:
A minimum of daily prayer (even if only a few minutes, but constant).
Distance yourself from environments, content, and people that could harm your soul.
If possible, seek out a priest or spiritual guide with whom you can dialogue and discern.
It’s not about becoming perfect overnight, but about taking your interior life seriously.
4. Put your gifts at the service of others.
Your tears, your capacity for love, your intuitions, and your sensitivity are not punishments: they are tools.
You can use them to:
Listen to those who have no one to listen to them.
Accompany a sick person, an elderly person, a child, someone who is suffering.
Pray for those God places in your heart.
Through faith, your gifts are not just for you: they are channels of grace for many others.
A little spiritual challenge to get you started
If you feel this topic has touched you deeply, you can give yourself a simple personal challenge:
For seven nights in a row:
Before going to sleep, take a few minutes of silence.
Pray (an Our Father, a Hail Mary, a rosary, or any prayer you know).
Say from your heart: “Lord, reveal to me my mission.
I want to live out what you have planned for me.
I give you my fears, my wounds, and my gifts.”
Remain silent for a few moments, with your hand on your chest, breathing simply and letting your soul rest in God.
It’s not a magical ritual, it’s a gesture of faith. A concrete “yes,” repeated for seven nights, can mark a before and after in your spiritual life.
The final prayer of a woman who knows she has been chosen.
To conclude this article, you can make this simple phrase your own:
Lord Jesus, perhaps I don’t understand everything I’m experiencing,
but today I want to believe that nothing of my story has been lost.
I give you my pain, my rejections, my fears, and my struggles.
I also offer you my sensitivity, my tears, and my capacity to love.
If you have chosen me, teach me to live as your daughter,
to intercede for my own, and to be light where there is darkness.
I place myself under the protection of the Virgin Mary
and ask that my entire life become a response to your love.
Amen.
May this content help you look at your story with more hope.
Maybe you’re not “too sensitive” or “too weak,”
maybe you’re just a woman chosen for something much greater than you imagined.
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