As people grow older, many believe that moving in with their children is the most natural and sensible path. After all, it promises companionship, security, love, and the support of family. Yet what appears to be a caring solution can sometimes turn into an emotional trap, stripping away the identity and independence of those who devoted their lives to their families.
Take the case of Geralda María Santos, a 63-year-old widow who sold her home and relocated with her daughter to another city. What initially seemed like a fresh, loving chapter gradually led to a loss of freedom, self-worth, and a sense of purpose.
An affection that hides a trap
In the beginning, everything feels perfect — surrounded by a child’s love, grandchildren’s laughter, and warm words. But over time, many women like Geralda discover their role shifts: from being welcomed guests to becoming permanent caregivers, unpaid helpers, or substitutes for a nanny or cook.
What starts as favors turns into expectations. The bedroom is meant to offer rest, but becomes more like a confined space to stay out of the way. And when complaints surface, they are brushed aside with comments like “but you have food and family here,” dismissing the pain of losing the freedom to plan their own day.
Gradually losing a sense of self
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