People you shouldn’t welcome into your home, even if they’re family: 3 powerful reflections inspired by Haruki Murakami
In life, there are moments when protecting your peace doesn’t mean shutting out strangers—but the very people you’ve known forever.
Haruki Murakami, the renowned Japanese author, often explores themes of solitude, boundaries, and emotional clarity. His novels may seem dreamlike and introspective, but many of his insights land with sharp clarity: not every family member has a right to your space—emotional or physical.
The hardest truth? Sometimes, the people who drain you most are those who share your last name. And sometimes, those who hurt you call you “daughter,” “uncle,” or “sister.” This isn’t about stirring conflict—it’s about encouraging deep reflection. Because your home should be your refuge, not a battleground for unresolved emotions.
Let’s look at three kinds of relatives you might want to think twice about welcoming into your home, accompanied by reflections inspired by Murakami’s quietly powerful wisdom. Ready for some inner work?
1. The relative who ignores your boundaries
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